Warning Signs of an Abusive Person

  • Past abuse
  • Threats of violence or abuse
  • Breaking objects
  • Use of force during an argument
  • Jealousy
  • Controlling behavior
  • Pressure to make a commitment
  • Unrealistic expectations
  • Isolate you
  • Blames others for problems
  • Blames others for their feelings
  • Hypersensitivity
  • Cruelty to animals or children
  • "Playful" use of force during sex
  • Rigid sex roles
  • Explosiveness and mood swings
 
Adapted from Wilson, K.J. When Violence Begins at Home: A Comprehensive Guide to Understanding and Ending Domestic Abuse. Alameda, CA: Hunter House Publishers, (1997).